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Was It The right move...?   
Frogman

Frogman
United Kingdom  


  10/1/2009

Okay so i was signed to an art website. I met someone and we were friends but after awhile he got clingy. When I told him he clung even tighter and continually harassed me. After getting sick of it I decided I wanted out. While I had lots of other friends there this one clingy guy was ticking me off. As soon as I said I was leaving-HE FAKED HIS OWN DEATH! Talk about silly...Then to top it off he made dummy accounts to harass me. I had to leave now. Then instantly I was acused of being a drama queen!? (Albiet not directly but it seemed rather coincidental how it was written within a few hours of my announcement. ) I feel bad for leaving people but I couldn't take this jerk cyberstalking me. I want to know did I make the right move?
 
Gumbo

Gumbo



  10/1/2009

He faked his own death..?


in the spring you gotta let the flowers fully blossom

 
Frogman

Frogman



  10/1/2009

Yup. I really dunno why. He also posed as his brother to dig up dirt on how people thought of him...
 
Gumbo

Gumbo



  10/1/2009

do you know this guy from real life?



in the spring you gotta let the flowers fully blossom

 
Frogman

Frogman



  10/1/2009

No but later that day he stupidly signed back in pestering me even more.
Also I poked a hole in the logic of the story. Some of the evidence did not add up.

 
Ghosthande
Prodigal Sock

Ghosthande


 visit Ghosthande's website: Breeders Beware
  10/1/2009

Can't you report him? If he's come back after being dead it should be pretty obvious to people that he's lying.


 
Frogman

Frogman



  10/1/2009

He has been banned but I feel bad for leaving people and my respect from my friends is probably ruined for assuming me to be drama hunting when this jerk was harassing me.
 
Gumbo

Gumbo



  10/1/2009

explain to them.


in the spring you gotta let the flowers fully blossom

 
Frogman

Frogman



  10/1/2009

thanks!~
 
Wup

Wup



  10/1/2009

signed to an art website


this one clingy guy


HE FAKED HIS OWN DEATH


Yes, and?


ps. I haven't played Monster Raannnrrrnnchhdoggy
 
Frogman

Frogman



  10/1/2009

I wanted to know was leaving a good idea.
 
Laura
Tea Queen

Laura


 visit Laura's website: CC Chat
  10/1/2009

If being in that situation was making you feel uncomfortable, then yes, it was a good idea. You should feel safe whilst you're using the internet. Give your friends an explanation if it'll help you feel better. :)
 
EmergencyTowel

EmergencyTowel



  10/1/2009

....Why am I the only one that would nuke his house?..

...stop looking at me like that.

(back on topic)

Yeah,you did good. Who cares if they think your a drama king. I beilieve the term is "screw them" But thats too unfitting right now.


In my nerd cave, nobody can hear you scream.
Feed my pets: Shroomy and Glow!

 
Ghosthande
Prodigal Sock

Ghosthande


 visit Ghosthande's website: Breeders Beware
  10/1/2009

Agreed.
I've honestly been through the same thing a couple months ago. Some person on a different forum decided to make it their life's goal to fly off the handle and scream at me whenever I posted [no joke--simply stating that I liked computer games or that I had pets became a one-sided flamewar]. And to make matters worse everyone else on that forum blamed me!

So I just gave up and left. Even if they had booted that person out I wouldn't have been inclined to stay. If these people can't even see basic reason, they are not your friends. If they blame you for being harassed, they are not your friends. Having a good reputation isn't worth suffering through an atmosphere that's just going to drag you down.



 
xan

xan



  10/1/2009

Block and ignore, do not respond to contact
 
LoverIan

LoverIan



  10/1/2009

I know people that can be clingy, and I can be a bit clingy some times, but, FAKING HIS OWN DEATH?

I mean, it's okay to be a bit clingy, but if you fake your own death, there is something wrong with you.....

I think it was the right move, because, the only other thing you could have done, is try to introduce him to many more people, get him more friends, so that you're not his center of attention all the time!


beep
 
rainbowcat1

rainbowcat1



  10/1/2009

I must say, I'm really happy that the CC is relatively drama free, and I think you did the right thing, C1Pixie! Stand up for yourself, and walk away knowing that you didn't do anything wrong.

"Everything you can imagine is real" ~Pablo Picasso



 
Arnout

Arnout



  10/2/2009

This was the right move! ;)
Never register on a website with a lot of drama, anger, hate and other things, you must allways feel safe on the internet.




 


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