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Ezri

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8/21/2009 | |
School just started for me (on August 19, 2009), and I met this girl (her name is Katharina, she's 17 and I'm 16) in my English III class on August 20, 2009. We didn't know each other at all at the time and we were sitting by each other and we had to pick a partner to do introductions with. She is beautiful (I'd say hot, but that would be an understatement) and I didn't know her and she didn't know me so I asked her if she wanted to be partners, and she said yes (the project took both yesterday and today). So we spent all of class yesterday (and most of class today) getting to know each other (I didn't even know she was a German [she is from Cologne, Germany] foreign exchange student until she told me), she said she just got to (the United States of) America (more specifically, Missouri, right on the outskirts of the St. Louis Metropolitian area [and when I say the outskirts, I mean right on the very edge of civilization, in fact, our county only became industrialized in the 21st century]). Well I'm a Junior and she is a Senior. She is single and I am single (since I broke up with my old girlfriend on the second to last day of school last year), I want to ask her out, but haven't done so yet. Unfortunately she is going back to Cologne, Germany two days into the second semester. I think she likes me too, I am thinking about maybe asking her out to the movies or maybe out to eat. Or perhaps I should start it slow and maybe ask her if I can walk her to her next class (perhaps even outside, the scenary around the school is beautiful and the weather is great), or asking her if she can help me with my German I class. It should be noted that we both have the same lunch shift (third lunch shift). Also, the school I go to has 2,363 students (Fall 2007 concensus). If you have any advice, feel free to mention it. |

Malkin
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8/21/2009 | |
My advice is Carpe Diem. 
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rainbowcat1
    
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8/21/2009 | |
Maybe you should offer to take her to see some of the highlights of your town to kick things off. My family had an exchange student once, and she loved to see the parks and museums in our city, even though most people thought of them as common place. Maybe if you have something historic in your town, or just a nice park, you could take her there and then have lunch? I don't really have dating experience, but I think that this would at least help you get to know her. And, Malkin, I totally agree with you! Good luck Ezri!
"Everything you can imagine is real" ~Pablo Picasso

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LoverIan
    
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8/22/2009 | |
If you two get close, maybe you could try to apply for something like the whole foreign exchange student thingy, if a student can, and if you can, try to apply!
As malkin said Carpe Diem, but, don't just seize the day, seize life itself! Do EVERYTHING to make it all the best for her, who knows, maybe she can apply for next year?
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EmergencyTowel
    
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8/22/2009 | |
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Laura
    

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8/24/2009 | |
I read and posted in the topic about the note you've written to her, Ezri, and I think your idea of asking her to go on a walk with you is a good step forward. You'll be doing something fun together, and whilst you're walking it'll give you an opportunity to get chatting and start getting to know her as a friend. I'm no relationship guru, but taking enough time to get to know her and starting off as friends is always better than just diving straight into a girlfriend/boyfriend scenario. I hope the walk goes well - you'll have to keep us posted of course!  |
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