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Okay, is this a thing?  via Slohse on 8/15/2015 | 24 votes
How long is the perfect time to wait to call a date?
 
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MuppetBoy | 3/21/2020  log in to like post

I'd say leave it 3 to 18 hours to give yourself (and them) a chance to think on how it went.

Don't leave it to long as they may assume you are not interested, or are playing mind-games with them.
 
Freylaverse | 11/29/2015  log in to like post

If you really like the person, you should arrange the second date straight away! Instead of playing mind games with the other person, y'know? Even if it's not intentional, it can do a lot to someone's ego. Especially if they feel nervous about making the call.
 
NimhsLab | 11/15/2015  log in to like post

I'd say a text to let them know you got back home safe, and then establishing when to meet again, calling or texting depending on what they prefer. I don't think i'd appreciate mind-games in that regard.
 
Salabasama | 8/21/2015  log in to like post  1

Never call back. Undermine their self-confidence.
 
Laura | 8/17/2015  log in to like post

I, too, arranged a second date after the first. It was him who asked actually! :)
 
Dienes | 8/16/2015  log in to like post

I'd say so. And then you don't need to wring your hands overthinking mind games.
 
Malkin | 8/16/2015  log in to like post

Is that common, Dienes?
 
xan | 8/15/2015  log in to like post  1

It depends on the people involved.
 
Dienes | 8/15/2015  log in to like post  1

Set the second date up at the end of the first date.

If you are doing this type of nonsense game playing holding off a certain number of days....you're doing it wrong.
 
Slohse | 8/15/2015  log in to like post

Kind of...

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